Saturday, January 8, 2011

New Year’s Non-Resolutions

The Busy Neighbour here, dropping in for ML while she gets ready to tackle 2011. Back to work after an amazing vacation that consisted of jogging pants, eggnog, South Park re-reruns and sleeping in past 5am. I am not one for New Year’s Resolutions because of the limited capacity in my brain to remember an already long to-do list. However, I have a few sartorial things I am going to try and implement in 2011:

Stop buying only black and dark grey.

I had an a-ha moment over the holidays when looking through my laundry pile, the whole mountain was black and dark grey, minus one hot pink running shirt. Enough confusing my co-workers with my funeral attire, time for some color.



Buy for my body.

I manage to regularly purchase clothing that doesn’t fit. Offender number one: one pair of $80 pants that could almost pass for MC hammer pants they’re so big and atrocious in the bum area. Offender number two: one pair of $50 gym pants that are way too short, but can’t quite pass for capris. I don’t want to buy too tight and have love handles, and I don’t want to buy too big and look frumpy – so I always get the wrong size! This year I vow to spend more time trying things on to find the perfect size, and if the perfect size isn’t there – it wasn’t meant to be. Only will I buy something that needs to be tailored if the price is worth it – should I really take a $30 shirt to the tailor to make it fit me? Are those sale dress pants worth it if hemming will cost $15?

MC Hammer I ain’t!




Take my time buying shoes.

The significant other recently told me I have too many shoes. The sad part is that most of them are shoes I bought on a whim or in a hurry that fit horribly, make my feet hurt and are just plain fugly. Everyday when I am get home from work I’m greeted by at least ten pairs of worn-once shoes that cost me anywhere from $20-100 that I will never wear again. Waste of money (and I certainly don’t have money in abundance), bad for the environment and generally unnecessary.



Buy one, give one!

This is my favourite thing on the list. I attended roughly five clothing swaps last year and at each one gave away at least one large garbage bag stuffed to the brim with clothing, bags, shoes and scarves. I have too many clothes and there are people in the world far less fortunate than me. I am not a crazy shopper, but somehow manage to accumulate things quickly. New shopping plan: I can’t buy a single item (besides undies) unless something goes in the charity bag. For every item I buy, the same amount has to go to the charity bag!


So here Twenty Yorkers, is my list of New Year’s non-resolutions. Health and happiness to you all in the New Year! Slainte Mhath!

37 comments:

My Heart Blogged said...
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My Heart Blogged said...

I really like the buy one give one rule. I should implement it into my life.
My Heart Blogged

Anonymous said...

I love your buy one, give one resolution. My closet gets overfilled sometimes, and I just keep buying. I have a bag of clothes that I never wear, but I keep because i keep thinking "I might miss it someday." I should consider donating it.

xo Sherrie

Anna said...

I have been reassesing how many clothes I own and although I can't imagine giving up shopping altogether, I want to accumulate less. I LOVE the idea of buy one, give one. I'm going to adopt this practice for 2011.

Unknown said...

i'm totally with you on the black and dark gray ban! i'm trying to wear more color today too!

Anonymous said...

Good Luck or God Bless you ML in keeping this resolutions all year through or for a long length of time :)
I think the last one is the hardest to keep in my part.
This would never cross my mind!

Jessica said...

I'm with you on the fit and shoe resolutions! My main goal for 2011 is to buy less, but buy quality. And if something needs alterations to be perfect and if shoes need to be resoled, it's completely worth it. I'm going to start viewing my wardrobe as an investment instead of a fleeting fixation.

curls-and-pearls said...

These are pretty great goals ML! I'm with you on the fit one and I love the buy one give one idea! I'm currently going through my closet slowly and assessing what I have and what my gaps are and what I don't need!

beneath the glass said...

i totally agree with your resolutions, many of mine are the same as well. good luck with them! :)

Beneath the Glass

Amy's Fashion Blog said...

I do the buy one give one. What I do I first go thru my closet before shopping or least try to. Then sale my clothes to Platos closet. If they won't buy them. Then off to goodwill they go.

I also have the same shoe problems.

Great goals.

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Lilly Style said...

Great goals! I really like the buy1 give1 rule...I should try it :)

Nelah said...

I value your "buy one give one" goal. Such a wonderful resolution for a good cause.

Irene said...

Dang girl, I love your style!!! :)

Good New Years resolutions! I know for sure I need to buy more for my body - no more tight clothes! I like how you said no more just black & grey hehe...

I totally love your buy one give one idea - it's a great idea!

LyddieGal said...

I definitely need to adopt the one in one out rule. Things always seem fine, until I finally do that huge pile of laundry and realize I don't have enough closet space, or even enough hangers for all the clothes I've accumulated!

Chic on the Cheap

jess said...

i definitely have way too much grey and black in my wardrobe too! and don't worry, boys always think we have way too many shoes haha

Jan said...

I have a lot of black and grey too. Instead of starting the wardrobe all over again maybe a few bright accessories but help inject some colour as well? :)

Rosie Grey said...

What a great list of resolutions! I could just copy it straightly for me!

Lisa said...

Those are excellent resolutions. I have the same issue with ill-fitting clothing and shoes. I rationalize to myself that it's so cheap/such a good deal, but it's not really if you don't wear it or don't feel comfortable in it.

Ashelle said...

Great resolutions! I like the taking time to make sure things fit. For me, I always buy sale items, telling myself I can alter them since I'm able to sew... but I never do. Sewing is too much time & effort which my lazy butt doesn't feel like doing after a day at work.

Jodi said...

YES, I love your list.. and mine is also just about exactly the same.

NUMBER 1. NO MORE buying black (with exception of the black leather skirt I just got on Friday..LOL)

buying quality vs quantity.. I hear ya on the shoes too!!!

I may have to post something like this on my blog... you rock and you crack me up.. love the comment about the MC Hammer pants... way too funny!!!
xo J

Anonymous said...

Definitely will implement buy one give one rule!!! will be doing that on spring cleaning time!!
And so agreeing with grey balck and white outfit!! I wear those color all year long!!! and I shouldnt!! I need more color in my closet
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little luxury list said...

Great list. I also want to focus on timeless, quality buys and figure out if it really fits in my wardrobe. The buy 1 give 1 to charity is also great. We all have things that we may not wear (or ever worn) but would be appreciated by someone else so why not give?

Ashley [Free Honey] said...

Really solid resolutions - buy 1 give 1 is a really noble idea, especially. I think I might have to implement some of your ideals into my life in 2011.

xo, Ashley

Elle Sees said...

i like the buy & give. i'm implementing this one asap

Frozen Fashion said...

How lucky am I to have found your blog!

Such a fresh, funny and smart blog!

Thanks for finding my blog and making our blogging acquaintance.

Yes, the challenge of buying for your body! I did conquer that one well almost, the hardest was buying the right sized pants. They right size always feels too tight in the store but the thing with pants they stretch.... I can't tell you how much money I have spent having my pants taken in..... errrrrr



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STYLE'N said...

Great ideas and I think it's good to think about how you are going to shop, spend, etc. in the New Year! Swapping is so much fun. I attended my first one in 2010. And I agree-adding more color in our wardrobes is great..and bright and bold colors is going to be a huge trend this spring! Happy New year

karro said...

You have a great blog! :)
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Anonymous said...

I agree wholeheartedly with each and every point on your list. I have already started doing these and have actually gone on a shopping ban to give my head a chance to cool off and figure out what I really need instead of just going out there and feverishly accumulate stuff. It's been 2 months and 10 days now and I still have 3 months and 20 days to go and it's not too bad. :)

Look forward to hearing from you

Love

Tashrin from Canada

Venus Loves Virgo said...

You said it sister! Awesome post :) I love the images you used, especially with MC Hammer. ROTFL! XOXO

Unknown said...

These are really great resolutions, I definitely hear you about the shoes, I have way too many that I don't wear for various reasons, and they are just taking up space!

Shopping and Spreadsheets

Anonymous said...

I'm always scared to get rid of clothes. I always think when I give it away that I'll need it for an event or it comes back into style. Recently I just gave away maybe 3 to 4 bags of clothes, shoes, bags, everything. It was nice to clean everything out.

liz said...

Oh I guess I did do my resolutions similar to yours! It's so exciting to start fresh with a new year huh! I agree with you on sizing, sometime I try to squeeze into unflattering stuff and then I go the opposite and drown in big flowy stuff, must find balance!

SewPetiteGal said...

Great resolutions!! What's your criteria for deciding when to get rid of something?

Megan G said...

Back before the room and closet remodeling, I had to stick by that Buy one, Give one rule. It also makes you look long and hard at those so-so pieces that you bought and don't really love. You eventually end up with a closet you pretty much love.

Amanda Swann said...

I have the same problem with shoes! Most of my shoes are really uncomfortable, therefore I don't want to wear them too much even if they are pretty.

The Cheeky Cafe

said...

I love the buy one give one idea, I think I'm going to start doing that as well!

Emma
TheSidewalkIsMyRunway

Unknown said...

Great ideas!! I definitely am right there with you regarding the black & gray. I actually took photos of my closet and realized that half of it is black and gray. Depressing!! I am forcing myself to buy only colors, b/c I really need to start wearing color! I actually implemented your buy one give one plan a few years ago when I decided that I had too many clothes and shoes I didn't wear. Now when ever I shop, I have to get rid of something. It really does help!! Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciate it!!

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Kirstin Marie
http://www.kirstinmarie.com

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