Bonne Année Mes Amis!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Bonne Année Mes Amis!

Muaaah! 20 YORK STREET at Wednesday, January 05, 2011

It's not that I have nothing to say, in fact, I have plenty. It's just that I am trying to figure out the best way and find the best time to say it. Alas, I realized there is no perfect time. Any time you take that take the courage to come out and say something or make a stand, that's nothing short of perfect now, isn't it?

I am sorry I have been away, I haven't left but I have been far gone in my thoughts. As you know, I have been a tremendous amount of stress recently and I just needed to take a breath and say om... However, despite that, I sincerely had you my friends, in my thoughts and prayers during the New Year. So, if I may (though late I know), I would like to wish you all a wonderful new beginning. A new year that is full of hope, love and happiness. A new dawn that promises tomorrow is another day, another opportunity to grow and reach for your dreams, whether that's owning a house, getting a better job, building stronger relationships or finding true love, losing weight or simply being more present.

I wish you the wisdom and the serenity to know that whatever challenge comes your way, that too shall pass and really, all will be well and all is well in the end. It may not always feel true while you are in the midst of suffering but as someone who is currently going through some difficulty, trust me when I say this, you are strong and you have what you need to get over this hurdle. If you falter and feel weak, there is someone who will be strong for you. Just reach out if you need a friend, someone will be there for you. I can be there for you.

I can say this with the utmost confidence as I have met a lot of you blogger friends who are going through so much yet you've shown boundless strength, endless love and constant inspiration.

All the best to you in 2011!

Thank you for your friendship and affection,

via

43 comments:

Sidewalk Chic said...: ML, *hugs*

It's totally understandable and take as much time as you need to be away.

I hope your Christmas was fantastic, dear friend. I feel like I have a million things to tell you so I will have to send you an email tomorrow about it.

You are amazing and resilient and I really hope you will have an even better 2011.; January 5, 2011 at 12:47 a.m.
Shybiker said...: What a beautiful message, Marilou. We hope you are doing well and handling your hardships.

Let's all pull together for a great new year!; January 5, 2011 at 1:33 a.m.
ching said...: more power to you too in 2011!
ps. NYE in cebu was loud.haha the fireworks were all around.. :D; January 5, 2011 at 2:11 a.m.
Unknown said...: Happy New Year!!!; January 5, 2011 at 5:14 a.m.
Emilie said...: love what you wrote cause it hit close to home.
Here's to a better year, full with laughter and smiles!

Emilie
http://tothenext50years.blogspot.com; January 5, 2011 at 5:20 a.m.
Anonymous said...: Aww, thank you ML, you´re such a cutie. I wish you the same. I hope to hear more of you soon! have a beautiful day <3

xx
M.
Join my Giveaway and win Lauren Conrad´s Style Book!; January 5, 2011 at 5:37 a.m.
Anonymous said...: What a great message to start your/ our 2011 ML!
Every word hits the right spot! Very well said.
Indeed you can count on me my dear bestie ;); January 5, 2011 at 6:01 a.m.
Anonymous said...: Thank you so much for your comment on my blog :D
Your blog is lovely! Happy New Year to you too :P

X Laila - EnvySplendour; January 5, 2011 at 7:22 a.m.
Elle Sees said...: I'm sorry ab your stress. I started my blog when I was @ a real low point...unemployed & just lost. You'll make it through. 2011is gonna rock!; January 5, 2011 at 8:42 a.m.
Baby Budget Blog said...: haha..thanks for the funny comment on my blog! Was about to hand the bag over to ya!

www.plentyforpennies.com; January 5, 2011 at 9:10 a.m.
BESOS LYNN said...: Happy New Year!
besos,lynn; January 5, 2011 at 10:35 a.m.
Marta said...: happy new year, gorgeous!; January 5, 2011 at 10:53 a.m.
Amy's Fashion Blog said...: Happy New Year.

I hope your stress goes away soon. I know how you feel I was there last year. Take care of yourself.

Hugs.

http://amyfashionblog52.blogspot.com/; January 5, 2011 at 11:17 a.m.
melissa rose said...: ML,
you have such a beautiful way with words. thank you.
and as always, the same goes for you. should you ever need someone to vent to, share an exciting moment, or just get a second opinion, I'm always here! <3
I hope I get to see you a lot more in the new year!
Happy 2011!; January 5, 2011 at 11:26 a.m.
Unknown said...: Happy New Year beautiful! I hope that 2011 brings you serenity and happiness! Great photos!

xo Emily; January 5, 2011 at 11:49 a.m.
Unknown said...: Sending you lots of strength & encouragement.
All the best for 2011!
~Giselle
http://www.machinewashwarm.blogspot.com; January 5, 2011 at 12:29 p.m.
Amber said...: i hope things start looking up for you, you deserve to be always be happy :); January 5, 2011 at 2:24 p.m.
BonBon Rose Girls Kristin said...: Cheers to strength and courage in 2011!; January 5, 2011 at 2:42 p.m.
Venus Loves Virgo said...: That was beautiful to read, thanks! I wish the same for you and your family and hope the clouds melt away for you and nothing by sunny days :) XOXO; January 5, 2011 at 3:20 p.m.
Mae Lu said...: I know you have gone through shit piles, but even the adversity makes us better! Hopefully 2011 is less filled with shit piles, though.

As I said to another blogger, whom I now lovingly refer to as my EBFF (Bleed For Fashion): "Between the good and the bad, the victories and defeats, everything that happens brings us to the person we're meant to be at this very moment, and carves us into the person we're meant to be in the next."

It's all about balance. It's bad now, but going through those moments changes us into the person we should be and are destined to be.

I'm here for you, though!

I'm glad you're around! I rather like you.

XX.
Mae Lu, @ thereafterish.; January 5, 2011 at 3:40 p.m.
Jan said...: Happy new year darling. Hope the break away was the rejuvenating space you needed. Don't worry, if you need longer, we'll still be here... eagerly anticipating your next move. Deep breaths and all the best!; January 5, 2011 at 5:02 p.m.
little luxury list said...: Lovely message ML! I hope we both get the new beginnings and opportunities we deserve!; January 5, 2011 at 7:26 p.m.
Jamie - Thrifty Threads said...: Happy New Year, ML!; January 5, 2011 at 9:59 p.m.
Kileen said...: best wishes, ML and take as much time as you need. we all go through tough times and it's good just to be true to yourself during those times. we'll be here for you when you're ready!

cuteandlittle.com; January 6, 2011 at 12:04 a.m.
Lok-Yin Lau said...: I wish you a happy new year too(:; January 6, 2011 at 5:06 a.m.
Jazzy E (Hivenn) said...: aso lovely. x hivennn.; January 6, 2011 at 5:53 a.m.
vintageglam1234 said...: Hey Happy New year ML! looking forward to some new posts soon...; January 6, 2011 at 6:31 a.m.
Diana Mieczan said...: That is so beautiful, darling. Cheers to 2011:)
Have a great year, darling
Kisses; January 6, 2011 at 7:02 a.m.
Miss Woody said...: love it !; January 6, 2011 at 8:42 a.m.
Tales of Whimsy said...: Wisdom? What a great wish! I will take that :) Happy New Year :)

Brilliant picture!; January 6, 2011 at 10:21 a.m.
colorsdiary said...: what a great message! gratz to you and have a fantastic new year!

denise; January 6, 2011 at 12:28 p.m.
Roxy Te said...: Hi my dear! You have us all so worried! I hope you are well and that the new year brings you boundless blessings :)
p.s. Skincare ...
Facewash- Cetaphil
Moisturizer- Philosophy's Hope in a Jar
Exfoliation- Philosophy's Microdelivery Peel
Daily- Phil's Turbo Booster C powder mixed in wiht my mercier tinted moisturizer! ;) Good luck, love!; January 6, 2011 at 1:21 p.m.
Angie Aquarius said...: Thanks for commenting!

Love the pics in this post!

From Munich With Love
Angie; January 6, 2011 at 1:29 p.m.
k said...: Happy New Years girl! I thought this was a beautiful post :); January 6, 2011 at 3:06 p.m.
Kristy said...: Thanks for checking out my blog! Happy 2011!!; January 6, 2011 at 9:35 p.m.
Anonymous said...: AWWW i absolutely adore that last photo and it is ABSOLUTELY how I feel! 2010 was a pretty tough year for me so I am hoping 2011 will be MUCH better!!!
I hope your year is starting out well!!!
Happy New YEar to you doll!!!

XX; January 6, 2011 at 9:50 p.m.
Ashley [Free Honey] said...: I'm so glad we found each other in 2010! I look forward to seeing where 20 York goes in 2011. Wishing you all the best,

xoxo, Ashley; January 6, 2011 at 9:51 p.m.
curls-and-pearls said...: ML I missed you!!!! Totally understandable that you need time away. After all, blogging should be fun and just a small aspect of your life. I hope you had a very Happy New year and I good Christmas! I hope you got my email :); January 6, 2011 at 10:01 p.m.
Lynn said...: thanks for the comment!

happy new year :); January 6, 2011 at 10:21 p.m.
Anonymous said...: I miss you too Honey!! I miss your corky, witty humor on your blog!! I hope you feeling better, wish you have twitter so we can talk there!! let me know if you need anything
<3
http://reserveradefashion.blogspot.com; January 6, 2011 at 11:21 p.m.
Anonymous said...: Happy New Year, my love! I miss you- and thank you so much for this post!; January 6, 2011 at 11:43 p.m.
Ashelle said...: Such an inspirational New Years post :) I loved it. You are too wise. HappyNew Year, hope you get all that you wish for.

And, yes, drinks soon.; January 7, 2011 at 7:52 a.m.
Matt said...: I totally understand the need for a break sometimes. Heck, I've been having to spend less time with my own blogging contributions lately as well too! (And just now starting to catch up!) I hope you have a wonderful 2011 though!! :); January 27, 2011 at 2:17 a.m.